Author: akashah

This episode features two short pieces reflecting on the my adventurous life and evolving sense of beauty. Inspired by a childhood admiration for fearless characters like Nancy Drew and the free spirit of wild horses, I share experiences of traveling and exploring diverse cultures in the Middle East during the 70s and 80s. Despite not […]

On this poignant Friday the 13th, I find myself consumed by a sense of melancholy. Despite years of therapy, the sadness resurfaces, prompting me to look back on past regrets and unfulfilled desires. Yet, amidst the heaviness, I recognize the countless blessings and dreams I have realized, offering immense satisfaction and fulfillment. I am learning […]

In this episode, I share my journey of landing my first “real” job and navigating the challenges of working as a woman in the 1970s South. From a nerve-racking typewriter test to becoming a successful TV ad buyer for the Coca Cola account, I recount the obstacles I faced, including an awkward lunch meeting and […]

Synchronicity led me to create a one woman show titled ‘Made of Cotton.’ From the initial suggestion in a writing class to meeting a director by chance, and ultimately performing on stage, I experienced the challenges, surprises, and joys of stepping out of my comfort zone. This transformative experience not only boosted my confidence but […]

I have a deep-rooted love for Alabama football, a tradition handed down from my daddy (who would have celebrated his 104th birthday today). Growing up in the South, Saturdays were marked by football gatherings, food, and camaraderie. Listen as I share fond memories of these gatherings, the joy and anguish of being an Alabama fan, […]

As in Rumi’s words “Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.” I can attest that my strange pulls have lead me through various phases in life, each with their own unique joys and lessons. In this episode, I reflect on the shifts […]

The universe often throws unexpected changes our way, disrupting our plans and shaking our expectations. These moments have shaped my perspective on trust and adaptability and I’ve learned to view these disruptions as opportunities for growth and discovery. One of the bigger lessons I’ve learned is that we must let go of rigid expectations and […]

Like many people of the world, I recently watched a bit of the Olympics and found myself somewhat awestruck. After seeing those inspiring athletes and, believe it nor not, as a result of my own experience working with a trainer at the gym, I am reminded of the significance of perseverance and recalibration in achieving […]

It is not uncommon in life to have mixed emotions brought by unexpected events both joyful and sorrowful. While I realize change is inevitable, I also know that embracing our feelings and finding strength and gratitude in the face of impermanence is a crucial part of being alive. Now That You Ask is a podcast […]

Finding and sharing our unique gifts freely, for the pure joy it, is one of the best things in life. In this episode, I reflect the importance of what we scatter in life. From cooking for friends to surprising a stranger with an unexpected gift, these acts have brought immense joy to both others and […]