When life feels like it’s happening all at once, how do you stay grounded? In this episode, I reflect on navigating the joyful chaos of publishing my memoir, buying my first home at nearly eighty, and learning that asking for help is often the greatest strength of all. Inspired by a beautiful quote from Alexander Chee, I explore what it means to trust the process, surrender control, and believe that even life’s busiest seasons can bring unexpected grace. Sometimes the best thing we can do is stop fighting the chaos, wait for the rain, and watch something beautiful begin to grow.
Akasha’s Book
I’m so excited to announce that my memoir is now available on Amazon. Learn more about “Unbecoming Behavior, A Southern Memoir of Adventurous Choices by Akasha Halsey.” here https://nowthatyouaskpodcast.com/unbecoming-behavior/
About the Show
Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience with life’s most persistent questions.
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This is brilliant Akasha…..and so timely for me too. Thank you!
What exciting news, Akasha!! You’re the only person I know who would enter into the adventure of buying a new house and moving at your 80th birthday–a time when most of us are selling our house, downsizing, and figuring out how to surround ourselves with old-age-type help. Congratulations! You are so brave and full of wonder. I hope this move will be filled with joy and the thrill of accomplishment. P.S. I’ll need your new address ASAP as it’s almost time for a birthday greeting to come your way. Much love to you always. Marti
❤️ you
❤️ this episode
I’m looking forward to seeing you in your new home and all that unfolds day by day.
And celebrating your Birthday and your Book!
Such Good Chaos!
How inspiring are fearless you are.
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You continue to amaze me. New book, new house, you certainly don’t put any limitations on yourself. I love it all.